Friday, November 20, 2009

Feeling better...looking worse!

Kayston is pretty much back to his old self again! Fighting with his sister, being sassy to mom and dad, whining a lot, and bouncing off the walls. We're glad to have him back! (I just didn't think it would be so soon!) He is pretty restricted as to what he can do though. No recess, (which is killing him) no contact sports,(which means no wrestling with Daddy) no jumping on trampolines/beds, and pretty much everything a 5 year old boy likes to do. Luckily, he has started to like coloring a lot more than he used to. He likes to mostly draw skeletons and scary things and cut them out.
Even though he is feeling better, to me, his face looks a lot worse! The swelling has gone down but the black eye is now, purple, red, blue, yellow, and green. And bruising has shown up around his other eye and down his whole cheek. Not to mention when he opens his eye all the way it looks all bloody inside. Ewww! I get chills just thinking about it. He has been such a trooper though. Tuesday night, he told us that he was ready to go back to school. I was kind of surprised considering that almost every visitor that he had, he would hide under a blanket so they couldn't see his eye.
So, I decided that I would go with him to school and sit with him for a while to just make sure that he would be ok and to maybe take him home early if it was too hard for him. As we walked into the class he pulled his hat down over his eye so the kids couldn't see. I went over and talked to his teacher explaining his situation and he ran over to his seat and started cutting out that mornings project. I went over to him and asked him if he was ok. He said yes and told me to go home. I told him he couldn't keep the hat on all day cause it would be a distraction to the other kids. He said "OK" and took off his hat. Of course all the kids started coming over to check out his big colorful eye and face. He didn't seem to even notice. I asked him again if he wanted me to stay and he told me again to go. I gave him a kiss and left his class. Before the door even shut I could feel the tears building up in my eyes. I couldn't believe how brave he was! And the thought of all the kids staring at him with that look of "ewwww gross" in their faces broke my heart.
As a parent, you want to protect your child from everything, especially getting hurt, physically and emotionally. I realized that even though I wanted so badly to stay there with him to make sure he would be ok and make sure he didn't get hurt or made fun of...I couldn't. He has to do these things on his own. And he did! And it was fine! And I am fine...now! =)
These kids just amaze me! If it were me that this happened to, I would still be laying in bed thinking I was dying! I just can't believe how fast these little ones bounce back. Just thinking about all the MANY Angels that are watching out for these kiddos makes me emotional.

Anyway, thanks again to everyone for your love and support! We couldn't have made it through this without you! This is a picture with ALL the cards the primamry brought over! Kayston LOVED them!

8 comments:

Amy said...

Well at least we can see his eyeball! He is such a cute kid! So glad he is doing well

Britney said...

Wow! I am so glad he is doing better! And thanks for the cookies! They were delish! And Ryan wants the recip! :)

Trav-Amy-Kennedy-Shaylee Barney said...

WoW! He is a little trooper! I don't know how you keep him from not running around and playing that has to be so hard! Glad he is feeling better!

Warburtons said...

When he gets older he will look back at these pictures and think that they are so cool. ;)
I cant believe he has no pain. I would be in bed having people waiting on my every need. He is such a tough little guy. You should drop sis off one night and take him to a movie, i bet he would like that. And you know me...I don't really do anything at night so I would love to have sis for a bit ;)
See you in the early morning. :( Maybe we should take turns taking naps.

Bryan and Sarah said...

Kayston is such a great example! How nice of all the primary kids!

Val Murphy said...

What a little stud muffin! Glad he is feeling/doing better! I love the last picture of him with all the primary cards :)

Carrie said...

He looks so good! His eye is OPEN. :) Glad he's back to his fun self! I'll have to bring over the T-man now.

Just me said...

Holy Crap Keri! Dang Scary! Tell Preston not to feel to bad, Scott drove Gracie, Caysi's kid, through and field on a four wheeler, she lost control and fell and broke her arm! Four wheelers are scary sometimes! I am glad he is Ok poor guy! Hope you guys are doing good!